"moral support" can be added as 6th basic need in one's life, according to me.. But there can be people (who I am trying to get impressed with), who does not need much moral support...whatever they do, becomes their moral support during the course of life..But seeing a person, who deprived of this is something like who says "i don't need love".. we can't see a person like this.. To me "love" is predominantly "moral support" + willingness to be a part of one self.. So in my view, "love" is the 6th basic need. motherly love is something which is rich in love... and difficult to get till ur death from ur birth throughout.
To me and most of the others (I think), the consistency in the support is also a basic requirement.. And so.. When we can not see that mutual, consistent interdependency, we get away from human beings and get involved in whatever boosts us.. Eg: work...here comes the Q, where is the wrong? the correct answer is no right or wrong... only the fact that you have to accept and not to expect..
I used to keep dwelling in one thing in my mind, untold outside within my mind.. for years and years.. Now ... I avoid those thoughts to save myself. After the great but painful realization that no matter what you think and do, there are some meaningless rules to break it..
At the end, still we start achieving small small things without any moral support..to keep riding in life... and not to get drenched in thoughts... it used be sad... but now, all these appear infact normal and fine.. but we can never tell outside whether it's acceptable... after all, no one can go and buy moral support.. so we live and do good still to ourselves atleast....Which is good thou not happiest thing esp when life is small and uncertain.
BTW: by "we" i meant all those normal souls..
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Hey aarthi,
who is that abnormal soul? ;)
Ha ha.. krishna.. Normal souls - gives importance to love/mutual support... rest all abnormal.. :-) (in my view)
Well i would relate this to the growing competition in this modern era.Right from childhood days they are taught to perform better than their counterparts and that thought stays in them.And in this materialistic world does people even remember there is love???I doubt!!!
Finally,a good thought!!!
Moral support...Thatz a really relevant topic...To get moral support within oneself is something one needs 2 cultivate as to get continued moral support even from dear ones is not always possible...
But there are people who provide such moral support to people they know not necesarily for a longer time...Though I'm fully aware that they donot know abt me fully still I get so much comforted by them.
Moral support...Thatz a really relevant topic...To get moral support within oneself is something one needs 2 cultivate as to get continued moral support even from dear ones is not always possible...
But there are people who provide such moral support to people they know not necesarily for a longer time...Though I'm fully aware that they donot know abt me fully still I get so much comforted by them that I simply take their words though not to my heart for ever but atleast for that day.
@ My Life is My lesson:
Thanks for your thoughtful comment. I donno who you are .. But by seeing your profile, knowing that you are a student of 20, I can see the correlation between the content and your current life.. But i can say from my experience that I was feeling similar thing during my Undergraduate education, but with age when people gets matured, I came to meet lot of good people.. Thanks for your appreciation too.
@ Gee:
Its quite true thats how life ... i mean cultivating moral support within oneself... But thats not easy for me atleast... Thats Y may I am too greedy in thinking abt a consistent mutual moral support
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