Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Judgements

Well. There is a quote from famous novelist and lyricist Paulo Coelho, which goes as ...

“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”


I really wonder sometimes, when people pass judgments or conclusions or fix opinions about someone... when they are not even a close friend for the other..

The best way to handle is ignore.. This is beyond our limit most of the times, due to our sensitive nature.. but if we sit and worry about it, at the end its just waste of time. because the hurting is so much that you just start thinking in this way .. that the person is not important in life.. so it does not matter what he/she thinks or tells about you..

Its an utter nuisance sometimes.. and so u dont want to get trapped in that negative mode.

Cheers Again!!

5 comments:

Anonymous writer said...

I liked that.

You can't judge other people, because you haven't lived thier life.

~ Anonymous wrter

aarthi said...

Hi Anonymous writer,
Thanks for your feed here.

Venkata Gopala Rao said...

Yes madam, I agree with you completely. It's better we don't waste our time on other's judgements or in judging others.
Better be clean and clear then get our hands dirty :-)

Anonymous said...

Nice read to start my day..

I failed to ignore those judgments for some reason most of the time.

On observation that helped me, for most of the cases, people feel obligated to think positive about others, if they don't know the detail. As most people are optimistic.. ;)

Being unpredictable.. might help. :D

aarthi said...

Hi Gopal and Krishna.
Thank you both..
s.. in both ways, it's a waste of time..
Regd failing to ignore, that was one of the main causes for this post..
And obligation to think positive about others .. That's nice.. Though have seen less in reality.