True Friendship???

In general, I have always seen two set of friends or whatever... One set will be too good, but having enof troubles that they cant share laugh or cry with their closed ones.. There is another set, who will not fall in either "just colleagues" nor "close friends" .. The second type will always be with you either when you are happy or sad but not both... And in my experience, when someone changes abruptly suddenly, then I just waste time and energy questioning what wrong I did .. Later or Sooner I realise that it does not matter ..This is teh time, when you become indifferent or insensitive.. Sad or Funny Though... Sometimes, we forget the so called "self respect" and keep seeing or trying to understand why some one changes so much. Huh.. It is all at the end ... Useless... Just nothing but Hurting..

My learning is this always : Though I learnt after many slaps on my face:
Never be attached to anyone.. even if they are so... To the extent .. So that you will never feel orphanated even if people pulls you from whom you never expected such things...

It is very cheap when I see some kind of jealousness between so called friends.. And somekind of selfishness between friends...

Afterall... To Err is Human.. But still, its better to accept an enemy who is frank rather than someone who says that he/she is friend but inner soul is different....