If someone has reflective listening attitude, then he or she would also talk (almost!!) , listen and understand things to and fro his/her own self .. so called conscience ..
Its very difficult to find meaning , reason and logic behind every big thing that we get , face , meet in life! (Both Good and Bad)!!
Striving to one's own conscience requires lot of maturity, self-reliance, at times in life!
Again you end up talking to urself and either enjoy the most or cry the most of that solitude or loneliness, respectively .
Own thoughts or identity will not vanish, if we spend a bit of time alone!!
That short lived solitude is so important that we realise the worth of those who stay mentally with us and I believe in maintaining a frequent solitude to reflect , play back, relish /cry for the good deeds/mistakes respectively ..
and last but not the least these short lived solitude helps us to build human relationships (very very few though!!) and take us away from any materialistic races in life..
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Nice to find postings after several days from u Aarthi.
I totally agree with u that spending some time alone for oneself is absolutely necessary.
Thatz y I feel and fortunately get a break from my routine and go to remote places like Jharkhand where I am myself without the disturbance of any external force.Unlike most people I don't lament but enjoy short trips to remote loacations especially within my own home country.
Great to know that you are njoying those (otherwise called official trips to jharkhand) trips and finding it beneficial to u as well. Keep it up Geetha :)
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