The companionship #1

On the relationship with the pet dogs...
Last night, I was moved by "Marley and Me" movie.. I started watching it,thinking  to have joy and amusement watching the no-so good mannered dog and his eventful plays ..
But it was not just that at the end.. This movie is a real slice of anyone's life who has a pet dog and considers him or her as one of the family members..

Life with a pet dog, when you have say few minutes in morning, an hour in evening and few minutes in night to afford to take care and play with him is like rejuvenating yourself... Its like having a kid forever....Of course, its hard to get them learn manners but they are very intelligent.. as long as the highest authority in the home :D says anything , the dog starts obeying... coz they consider him/her as their master.. Apparently our Jessy obeys only my dad, and easily neglects whatever me or my mom says ... But there's lot of fun in whatever she does... And most importantly, there's lot of love she shares....

To quote.... Few lines from this movie said by the hero whose pet dog dies after he gets aged...

"A dog has no use for fancy cars or big homes or designer clothes. Status symbol means nothing to him. A waterlogged stick will do just fine. A dog judges others not by their color or creed or class but by who they are inside. A dog doesn't care if you are rich or poor, educated or illiterate, clever or dull. Give him your heart and he will give you his. It was really quite simple, and yet we humans, so much wiser and more sophisticated, have always had trouble figuring out what really counts and what does not. As I wrote that farewell column to to my pet Marley, I realized it was all right there in front of us, if only we opened our eyes. Sometimes it took a dog with bad breath, worse manners, and pure intentions to help us see."

Obsessions

             The Innocence ...
                    The Love ...
                           The Freedom ...

Love ...

அன்புள்ள மன்னா அன்புள்ள கனவா
அன்புள்ள கள்வனே அன்புள்ள கண்ணாளனே
அன்புள்ள ஒளியே அன்புள்ள தமிழே
அன்புள்ள செய்யுளே அன்புள்ள இலக்கணமே
அன்புள்ள திருக்குறளே அன்புள்ள நற்றினையே
அன்புள்ள படவா அன்புள்ள திருடா
அன்புள்ள ரசிகா அன்புள்ள கிறுக்கா
அன்புள்ள திமிரே அன்புள்ள தவறே
அன்புள்ள உயிரே அன்புள்ள அன்பே

"பொக்கிஷம்"

will you be there?

here , goes the song....

Hold me, like the river jordan
And I will then say to thee
You re my friend
Carry me, like you are my brother
Love me like a mother ........Will you be there???????????
Weary, tell me will you hold me
When wrong, will you scold me? :-)
When lost will you find me?
But they told me a man should be faithful
And walk when not able
And fight till the end but I'm only human :-((instru.)

Everyone taking control of me :-(
Seems that the world's Got a role for me
I'm so confused
Will you should to me you'll be there for me
And care enough to bear me
(Hold me) (lay your head lowly)
(Softly then boldly) (carry me there)
(Hold me) (love me and feed me)
(Kiss me and free me) (I will feel blessed)
(Carry) (carry me boldly) (lift me up slowly)
(Carry me there) (save me) (heal me and bathe me)
(Softly you say to me) (I will be there..........)
(Lift me) (lift me up slowly)(Carry me boldly) (show me you care....)
(Hold me) (lay your head lowly)(Softly then boldly)
(carry me there)(Need me) (love me and feed me)
(Kiss me and free me) (I will feel blessed)

Spoken : in our darkest hour in my deepest despair
Will you still care? will you be there
In my trials and my tribulations
Through our doubts and frustrations
In my violence..ln my turbulence
Through my fear and my cconfessions
In my anguish and my pain
Through my joy and my sorrow
In the promise of another tomorrowI'l never let you part for you're always in my heart



It may sound like praise.. but i should say this song can heal one's mind in trouble... I love this song... I sung it to myself few times today...

PS: I watched this movie "free willy" when i was very young.. along with my father and brother... may be during my 8th standard.. That time i related this movie much to the way the boy makes the whale to get an independence, enjoyment... fun.. most of all.. the big cute whale was th catching thing in my mind... But I did not understand the underlying theme much in that age(obviously:))

Now, i watched this movie two days ago.. thanks to Zee studio... The main difference is in the way i (or anyone at grown age) relate the movie... that seems to be all about relationship... the faith part in it.. or in other words... to more of "moral support" or "love" rather than joy.. there is a big diffrence or change in the perspectives. That's the main thing i observed/learnt in life....the way my (our) perspectives and hence the opinions changes...

BTW... this song is something worth to pursue for years and years... its more about the faith in a relation.. which has more value than anything.... Hats off to Mike for such a beautiful song.. I relished it few times today... feeling too good...Hurrah!!!

Moral Support

"moral support" can be added as 6th basic need in one's life, according to me.. But there can be people (who I am trying to get impressed with), who does not need much moral support...whatever they do, becomes their moral support during the course of life..But seeing a person, who deprived of this is something like who says "i don't need love".. we can't see a person like this.. To me "love" is predominantly "moral support" + willingness to be a part of one self.. So in my view, "love" is the 6th basic need. motherly love is something which is rich in love... and difficult to get till ur death from ur birth throughout.

To me and most of the others (I think), the consistency in the support is also a basic requirement.. And so.. When we can not see that mutual, consistent interdependency, we get away from human beings and get involved in whatever boosts us.. Eg: work...here comes the Q, where is the wrong? the correct answer is no right or wrong... only the fact that you have to accept and not to expect..

I used to keep dwelling in one thing in my mind, untold outside within my mind.. for years and years.. Now ... I avoid those thoughts to save myself. After the great but painful realization that no matter what you think and do, there are some meaningless rules to break it..

At the end, still we start achieving small small things without any moral support..to keep riding in life... and not to get drenched in thoughts... it used be sad... but now, all these appear infact normal and fine.. but we can never tell outside whether it's acceptable... after all, no one can go and buy moral support.. so we live and do good still to ourselves atleast....Which is good thou not happiest thing esp when life is small and uncertain.

BTW: by "we" i meant all those normal souls..