Tag Line #1

Whatever you do in life will be insignificant, but it's very important that you do it. Because nobody else will. Like when someone comes into your life and half of you says you're nowhere near ready, but the other half says: make her yours forever.


source: movie "Remember Me (2010)"

few cute li(n)es ..

she is not beautiful yaar
still no one can replace her yaar
she is not that fair
And that does not matter yaar

She has not studied that much
I studied her and did not complete much
Dont like her dresses
yet my eyes still notices

She has is not having any doggy
she does not stop me if am her doggy
she does not sleep by hugging a doll
anyways, I too dont look like a doll

Her hairs are not that wet
Still have not come out of that dream yet
Her rings are not of gold
Could not stop that hold

She never wore silk saree
Yet, she appears with glee
she scolds, but no pain
nothing stands above her care again

Her smell is not that of rose
she is my breathe no choice
still I warn she is no one to me
still I warn she is no one to me .....

Speaking to self

If someone has reflective listening attitude, then he or she would also talk (almost!!) , listen and understand things to and fro his/her own self  .. so called conscience ..

Its very  difficult to find meaning , reason and logic behind every big thing that we get , face , meet in life! (Both Good and Bad)!!

Striving to one's own conscience requires lot of maturity, self-reliance, at times in life!

Again you end up talking to urself and either enjoy the most or cry the most of that solitude or loneliness, respectively .

Own thoughts or identity will not vanish, if we spend a bit of time alone!!

That short lived solitude is so important that we realise the worth of those who stay mentally with us and I believe in maintaining a frequent solitude to reflect , play back, relish /cry for the good deeds/mistakes respectively ..

and last but not the least these short lived solitude helps us to build human relationships (very very few though!!)  and take us away from any materialistic races in life..

hum saath saath hain..

A movie for family sick people ...
I could not watch this movie even when whenever i knew the schedules at which it was telecasted .. But last night i relished this movie ..
Could feel the sense of hope one would carry before marriage about his/her partner ..
Yet another lesson teaching movie is "Baghpan"
There is a saying in tamil "Family is a Temple" .. One can explore and make this happen in different ways before and after marriage.. In any case, Trust, Patience, Hard work and Faith are the keys in both phases of life ..

Everything in perspective..

Whether we have got what we want or not, we need to keep everything in perspective. We are forced sometimes to give LUCK its due share!!
But do we face a or many of such psycological dips?
I would say yes, But do we every try to come out and explore what best we can do?
I would say those who does not come out are the ones, who suffer, but they cant use that an execuse forever!!
There is more to life than just the dips due to failures and the flies due to successes..

Would prefer to be a child ignorant of such things, so that we keep our foot intact on the ground, and go forward.. keeping out mistrust, ego, and any other negative feelings away from us...

PS:
1. I hate to see when ppl show sympathy on those who suffer
2. I hate to see when ppl judges others most often
3. I love to be the with  the ones who are simple, non-egoistic, non-judgemental, cheerful, selfless, not jealous... making this world a beautiful place to live with... But so far, I have not seen one such!!

PPS:
We need to stay cheerful. Dont think about the faces/minds which distracts you , puts u down and makes u uncomfortable..

We should not have preoccupied notions, or opinions.. Be open as much as posisble and then decide what you find as good or bad..

Life ?

இருப்பது ஒரு வாழ்வு
அதில் ஏன் தாழ்வு?
வாழ்ந்த பின் வீழ்வு!!
பின்பு ஏன் சோர்வு?

சாதிக்க வேண்டியது பல
சில சமயம் படிகளோ சில
ஆனால் தடைகளோ பல
இவைககளை தாண்டா விட்டால் அதன் பேர் சாதனையே அல்ல!!

மனம் ஒன்று சொல்ல
புத்தி ஒன்று சொல்ல
இரண்டும் சண்டையும் போட
முடிவில் அர்த்தம் உள்ள வாழ்வை தேட

இருட்டிலும் வெளிச்சத்தை பார்த்து
எந்த சூழ்நிலையிலும் கொள்கையை காத்து
அன்பு மறவாமல் துணை இருப்பவரை நேசித்து
காலம் பார்த்து பிறருக்கு உதவி செய்து

இயற்கையின் ரகசியத்தை ரசித்து
பிள்ளை மனம் போல் வாழ்ந்து
எந்த ஒருவரின் துயருக்கும் காரணமாகாமல் நடந்து
எப்பர் பட்ட உயர்ந்த பதவியிலும் நடுநிலை காத்து

போட்டிக்கும் பொறாமைக்கும் இடம் கொடுக்காமல்
அமைதியும் அன்பும் குறையாமல்

சிரிப்பும் சிந்திப்பும் நிறைந்த வாழ்க்கை
 அதை வாழ்ந்து முடிப்பதே வாழ்க்கை

Trust..

This is such a beautiful word, because it makes the relationship very beautiful when it is present in that relationship...
Lot of ppl have an inner harmony, which they would never compromise.. Relationship is one such thing for few people.. I personally belive in not breaking any bridge at any time..
But at the same time,  I am hardly in touch with any one..
At times I feel negative about that, but at few other times I do feel positive about that..
After some big analysis (usual stupid analysis) i realised that whichever relation involved trust and open mindedness from both the sides, I could easily talk 2 him/her no matter how long the distance of time / length has been ..

ps: This post is a time pass for me.. honestly ... But Its an outcome of thoughts about this saying :"happiness doubles and sadness halves when you share"... This is not the reality, if you dont add "with the right person" at the end... That's my personal view based  on my experience ...

"Take Care"

When someone (friend, lover or parents , not in this order though ;-) ) says "Take care" with a deep expression in eyes, it is really a great relief ... Well. Its not some emotional stupidity which makes me to say so.. One of my friend said so, looking at my eyes..  At that moment, I felt an energy increase .. which gives more confidence..

Education/Status when misused..

I try my best to not write any cynical things in blog.. cant help sometimes..
Yesterday while I was walking to office, I came across this incident ..
I was near by office.. I saw a black innova was slightly damaged by a white car in it front.. I was slowing walking, as the traffic had already started.. with bikes running here and there..
3 of my collaegues at Shell was in that innova.. out of those 3 girls, i know 2 of them.. other one, i have only seen. so the innova is owned by one of those girls, known to me.. the driver of teh first white car came out. the girl started shouting already.. the white car had an another gentle man sitting at athe back side.. he also came out.. and I have been seeing this scene from teh time the innova stopped, within 2 or 3 mins, the girl (innova owner) slapped the driver of white car... even though i dont know her personally, i know her a bit and my only question is that when both the people from white car is talking, why should she slap the driver.. just becos of his status? even if he has done mistake, how can one slap someone? and that too within 2 or 3 mins of interaction.. am sure that driver did not use any bad words... but he refused and said that at this situation, both of us are reason for the damage.. more worse, is the other two girls cd not control the anger of this girl and they walked out from that scene.. all this took only 5 or 6 mins.. I saw our office security guys rushing to this site.. and brought this girl a little distance away from the driver.. the most sad part was teh driver was shocked and he stood upright seeing the girl .. he could have slaped her too. he is great.. he did not do that .. he has known that is rather cheap to do that..
My mother always used to say whenever soemone at our home used to get anger.. "if you just control and dont take actions when u r anger, you can prevent lot of mistakes"..
Its very true..
Foremost of all, I would say something in that girl has been misused by her.. Either education or her status..or even freedom..

Girls of India has to understand one thing.. Few years ago, they did not have all these freedom that they have now. and of course , not all girls get equal freedom to grow.. but at least those who get , lets use it positively.. there is no point in growing at all parameters of life (education, family, status), if you dont know how to control yourself.. such situations are not even tough.. To me, its a small situation,even if it takes 1 lakh damage out of 12 lakh innova car.. I dont think u can slap a guy gor that..

Already, many girls/ladies have become a bad example for spoiling the culture.. Come on, enjoy ur freedom/status/money, but hurting others is unacceptable. I just gave a thought , if the girl was not in a big company, would she done that still? Answer could be yes.. But even there, she has not kept her foot at the ground, rather excited in anger which ultimately hurts someone..

I should not have brought out the gender diffrence : boy and girl here.. even if its  guy, he should not slap the driver.. But a girl doing that in well-known Indian culture is a big surprise and worry .. girls have better control of anger and emotions than guys.. its statistics.. and my experience.. So, if a girl does that... sorry to say then..such girls are not girls ...

On Destiny ...

"Destiny is the bridge you build to the one you love... The shaping and moulding of destiny is your destiny"

This is a famous dialogue from a famous movie "My Sassy Girl"..  Life is not so dramatic and synchronised with respect to our thoughts/wishes though...its not the way for most ppl, they show in this movie... But still its a great movie..

This is in very much contradiction to
"Man proposes and God disposes"
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Like this there will be n number of thoughts/dialemmas/Questions/Worries

At the end, it turns out fine, and everything  in past will look like test of ourselves..

Yes, It  is so ...